| Location | Eccles/manchester |
| Age | 4 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 13/04/2005 |
| Date of Death | 16/02/2010 |
| Visitors | 1,742 since 20/03/2010 |
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Regan Lea Asquith 13.04.05 – 16.02.10
Regan was diagnosed with Meningitis at 2 weeks old, despite medical professionals telling us she only had around 8months to live, Regan recovered from the initial infection of Meningitis, but this left its own damage. Re-Occurent Chest Infections, Seizures, Dystonia and that's for starters!. She lived for over 4 years, In that time Regan was in and out of hospitals and Regan had also been Resuscitated 5 times, However the life she was living was of good quality (to say the least) .
("We had our good times, we had our bad times.
The love that Regan received, she would turn it round, right back at you, 10 times the size!.
She laughted, she cried, she certainly moaned. She knew what she wanted and she knew how to get it." - Daddy)
She got better everytime, or so it seemed.
Regan became ill in early November '09, It seemed like just the usual chest infection, she gets ill, then she gets better.
This time, this was not the case.
Regan got better initially and came home, but fell ill rapidly and was back in hospital, this happened over a few weeks.
On Boxing day we were told that Regan is not expected to see the hour threw and we should prepare for the worse... she suprised us once again... she wasn't ready yet.
Threw christmas and then new year rolled on... we was still waiting for her to get better.....
During all this time Regan was ventilated with a mask, as me and mum decided that the "tubed" ventilation did not seem the best option for Regan at this time, as it has its own problems and we did not feel Regan would survive the initial damage of the machines on top of her chest problems. Then would she ever come off the machine? We didn't know but it wasn't a risk we were willing to take.
The new year came about and we got too mid January when we had to have a meeting with the Medical staff, regarding Regans future care. When it came down to it, there was none, as far as the hospital goes! The Doctors explained how Regan had been in and out now for quite a long time and regardless of medicines and treatment, there was not much improvement. There was nothing really left for them to do or try!!
The Doctors explaines that it's not really a case of when she dies, but how!! This meaning we had to sit and think what options were best for Regan.
It came down to two... Stay at the hospital and see what happens, chances being she will die there. Or take her home and provide all the necessary care ourselves and see it out.
Die on a hospital bed with nurses running around? Or be at home with Family and home comforts is what it basically came down too.
We took Regan home.
Not really knowing what we were in for, well, more not believing what was going to happen, but how could we leave her there to just wait and see what happens.
We Couldn't.
Regan passed away peacefully at home...
...In Mummy & Daddys arms.
Regan was at home for 2 weeks and what a wonderful 2 weeks that was. Regan was buried 2 weeks afterwards
Regan remained at home from when she left the hospital until the day she were buried.
Just like Me & Mum promised her.
I wrote this for Regan the night before her big day x
MISSING MY REGAN
There are so many things
that I did not say
It was always tomorrow
but never today
I never told you
how much I want you too stay
Even though I knew
you had to go away
I wish that I could sit with you
and sing that song we play
I’ve been missing you Regan
Since you went away
I will never forget you
Not even for a day
In my heart, is where you will stay
Until I reach, my dying day
That’s when I will find you
So that we can play
That’s when I will promise
Together we will stay.
Love you Regan
From Daddy xx
With Love On Your Angel Day - by Ingrid Aspey
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Thinking of you today
Up high in heaven above
On this your Angel Day
I’m sending you all my love
I imagine you today
With your beautiful angel wings
Celebrating there in heaven
As the choir of Angels sings
Surrounded by other angel
All with halos shining bright
How I wish that we could see
It must be a wonderful sight
Enjoy your special day
And watch over Mum below
Just how much she loves you
Only God and Angels know
copyright© Ingrid Aspey 2010
2 Years Today
2 years today princess, doesnt seem that long ago when you was here smiling away, i wish i could give you a big kiss and a cuddle and tell you how much i love and miss you. Love you baby girl, hope you liked your flowers xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Love You
Nearly two years now regan and it seems like only yesterday you was born! miss you too the moon and back! everybody loves you loads! We will never forget you princess lots of love aunti aimee xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
tomorrow it will be 2 years since you left us princess it still feels like only yesterday i miss you sooo much an would do anything to hold you 1 more time or just to tell you how much i love you... things are just not the same wiyhout you we try so hard to keep thing the same so you dont think we forgot you as you will never ever be forgoten princess you was my life then an you still are now ,,,, miss you loads princess love your mummy xxxxxxxxx
You are my special princess
my brave little girl
i miss you lots and lots
and love you all the world xxxx
In tears I saw you sinking
I watched you fade away
You suffered in silence
You fought so hard to stay
You faced your task with courage
Your spirit did not bend, and still
you kept on fighting until the very end
mummy loves you princess xxxxx
My baby x
You are a princess in my heart, I care for you so much.
I loved the fondness in you eyes, and even, your tender little touch.
I looked at you when you were born,
and thought then straight away,
that you would be forever here,
so I could watch you grow and play.
You brought to me a heart of joy,
with memories so great and a powerful sense of fatherhood that no one can debate.
I watched you sleep and dream of things that I can only wonder.
That innocent look upon your face just made my heart grow fonder.
I never seen you run and jump and shout and calling out my name, but with the special times we spent, that was soon replaced.
No love that I have ever known could ever feel the same.
No suffering or tragedy nor deeply seated pain,
could ever over shadow the bond that we retain.
And so my little princess before you go to sleep,
Remember I am your daddy and I am yours to keep.
I dream of you at night and think of you by day.
remember Regan, we will be together, on one bright sunny day xx
Love you lots & lots Princess xxxxxx
so sorry. . . .
You always smiled, but In your eyes the sorrow shown,
If i could bring back the day you went away,
I would sit and tell you about today
The memories we have will never go away,
I just wish the sorrow wasn't here too stay.
I miss you Regan, more than words can say,
I just wish we had one more day.
The happiness you shared with me and mum,
still wouldn't make right the things we've done.
I just wish you were here today,
too tell you how sorry I am for the things that I've done.
I know that you know how it is,
I'm so sorry for it turning out like this.
You are in our hearts and that's where you will stay,
no matter what we do today.
I'm sorry Regan, Love Always & Forever,
x x x x x x x x Daddy x x x x x x x x
☆ ♥ x ♥ Happy 6th Birthday Princess ♥ x ♥ ☆
☆ Lots of love n cuddles ☆
♥ x ♥ All of Us ♥ x ♥
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.`·.¸.·´ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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(¸.·´ (¸.·´ .·´ ¸¸.·¨¯`·.♥ ☆Regan☆Lea☆ xXxXx
we all love you xxx
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy to regan
Happy birthday to you
Happy 6th birthday princess
mummy,daddy and your little brother leon
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