| Location | Eccles/manchester |
| Age | 4 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 13/04/2005 |
| Date of Death | 16/02/2010 |
| Visitors | 1,743 since 20/03/2010 |
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Regan Lea Asquith 13.04.05 – 16.02.10
Regan was diagnosed with Meningitis at 2 weeks old, despite medical professionals telling us she only had around 8months to live, Regan recovered from the initial infection of Meningitis, but this left its own damage. Re-Occurent Chest Infections, Seizures, Dystonia and that's for starters!. She lived for over 4 years, In that time Regan was in and out of hospitals and Regan had also been Resuscitated 5 times, However the life she was living was of good quality (to say the least) .
("We had our good times, we had our bad times.
The love that Regan received, she would turn it round, right back at you, 10 times the size!.
She laughted, she cried, she certainly moaned. She knew what she wanted and she knew how to get it." - Daddy)
She got better everytime, or so it seemed.
Regan became ill in early November '09, It seemed like just the usual chest infection, she gets ill, then she gets better.
This time, this was not the case.
Regan got better initially and came home, but fell ill rapidly and was back in hospital, this happened over a few weeks.
On Boxing day we were told that Regan is not expected to see the hour threw and we should prepare for the worse... she suprised us once again... she wasn't ready yet.
Threw christmas and then new year rolled on... we was still waiting for her to get better.....
During all this time Regan was ventilated with a mask, as me and mum decided that the "tubed" ventilation did not seem the best option for Regan at this time, as it has its own problems and we did not feel Regan would survive the initial damage of the machines on top of her chest problems. Then would she ever come off the machine? We didn't know but it wasn't a risk we were willing to take.
The new year came about and we got too mid January when we had to have a meeting with the Medical staff, regarding Regans future care. When it came down to it, there was none, as far as the hospital goes! The Doctors explained how Regan had been in and out now for quite a long time and regardless of medicines and treatment, there was not much improvement. There was nothing really left for them to do or try!!
The Doctors explaines that it's not really a case of when she dies, but how!! This meaning we had to sit and think what options were best for Regan.
It came down to two... Stay at the hospital and see what happens, chances being she will die there. Or take her home and provide all the necessary care ourselves and see it out.
Die on a hospital bed with nurses running around? Or be at home with Family and home comforts is what it basically came down too.
We took Regan home.
Not really knowing what we were in for, well, more not believing what was going to happen, but how could we leave her there to just wait and see what happens.
We Couldn't.
Regan passed away peacefully at home...
...In Mummy & Daddys arms.
Regan was at home for 2 weeks and what a wonderful 2 weeks that was. Regan was buried 2 weeks afterwards
Regan remained at home from when she left the hospital until the day she were buried.
Just like Me & Mum promised her.
I wrote this for Regan the night before her big day x
MISSING MY REGAN
There are so many things
that I did not say
It was always tomorrow
but never today
I never told you
how much I want you too stay
Even though I knew
you had to go away
I wish that I could sit with you
and sing that song we play
I’ve been missing you Regan
Since you went away
I will never forget you
Not even for a day
In my heart, is where you will stay
Until I reach, my dying day
That’s when I will find you
So that we can play
That’s when I will promise
Together we will stay.
Love you Regan
From Daddy xx
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REGAN
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Regan
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY REGAN
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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mummy loves you xxx
An angel wrote down your date of birth
but sadly said only lent to earth
so care for her and give her your love
as soon she'll be an angel above
days are treasured,time is gold
all we have left are memories to hold
Love you all the world princess
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To a specail little lady xxx
At times like this,i think of you
and shed a silent tear
and wish with all my heart
that i still had you here
I think of all the times we had
your warm and special smile
and all the beautiful things we did
that made life seem worthwhile
And i'm so glad those happy times
can always be retraced
for you are really special
and just carnt be replaced
and now my mothers day is here
i hope so how you'll know
that every day throughout my life
i'll love and miss you so
love you lots princess xxx
i love you xx
You were lying in my arms,
As I tried to say goodbye,
“It might be for the best”, they said,
But I knew that was a lie.
I gazed at your little hand
that i held so tight that day
You wouldn’t feel pain again,
But I wanted you to stay.
You fought for every breath you took,
Never letting go,
Until one day God made you His,
Leaving all of us below.
Although you couldn’t walk or talk,
Or even count to ten,
Your short life had more impact,
Than a hundred million men
love you xx
Blessed mother up above
please give regan all are love
hold her tight and do your best
let her lay her head to rest
no more pain or endless suffering
only tenderness and lots of cuddling
and please dear mother hear my pleas
when i die give my regan back to me
MUMMY LOVES YOU PRINCESS xxxxx
for my big sister i love you xxx
The stork brought me a sister
to join me as i play,
but she only stayed a little while
and had to go away,
I will miss you my little sister
and my toys will miss you too,
I'll forget my toys as i grow up
but i'll always remember You
i ove you xxxx
God looked around his garden
And found an empty place,
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you
And lifted you to rest.
God’s garden must be beautiful
He always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain.
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb.
So he closed your weary eyelids
And whispered, ‘Peace bethine’.
It broke our hearts to lose you
But you didn’t go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
we miss you princess
A special smile
Aspecial face
A special girl we carnt replace
Regan we love you, you are the best
now sleep with god and get some rest
for now we have a broken chain
untill that day we meet again
Love you lots precious princess xxxxx
A Special Child - by Edna Massionilla
A meeting was held quite far from earth,
Time again for another birth,
Said the Angels to the Lord above
This special child will need a lot of love.
Their progress may be very slow
Accomplishments they may not show
And they'll require special care
From the folks they'll meet way down there .
They may not run or laugh or play
Their thoughts my seem so far away
In many ways they won't adapt
And they'll be known as Handicapped.
So let’s be careful where they're sent
We want their life to be content,
Please Lord find the Parents who
Will do this special job for you.
They will not realise straight away,
The leading role they'll have to play
But with this child sent from up above
Comes stronger faith and richer love.
And soon they'll know the privilege given
In caring for this Gift from Heaven.
This precious child so meek and mild
Is Heaven’s Very Special Child XX
Copyright of Edna Massionilla
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