| Location | Eccles/manchester |
| Age | 4 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 13/04/2005 |
| Date of Death | 16/02/2010 |
| Visitors | 1,744 since 20/03/2010 |
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Regan Lea Asquith 13.04.05 β 16.02.10
Regan was diagnosed with Meningitis at 2 weeks old, despite medical professionals telling us she only had around 8months to live, Regan recovered from the initial infection of Meningitis, but this left its own damage. Re-Occurent Chest Infections, Seizures, Dystonia and that's for starters!. She lived for over 4 years, In that time Regan was in and out of hospitals and Regan had also been Resuscitated 5 times, However the life she was living was of good quality (to say the least) .
("We had our good times, we had our bad times.
The love that Regan received, she would turn it round, right back at you, 10 times the size!.
She laughted, she cried, she certainly moaned. She knew what she wanted and she knew how to get it." - Daddy)
She got better everytime, or so it seemed.
Regan became ill in early November '09, It seemed like just the usual chest infection, she gets ill, then she gets better.
This time, this was not the case.
Regan got better initially and came home, but fell ill rapidly and was back in hospital, this happened over a few weeks.
On Boxing day we were told that Regan is not expected to see the hour threw and we should prepare for the worse... she suprised us once again... she wasn't ready yet.
Threw christmas and then new year rolled on... we was still waiting for her to get better.....
During all this time Regan was ventilated with a mask, as me and mum decided that the "tubed" ventilation did not seem the best option for Regan at this time, as it has its own problems and we did not feel Regan would survive the initial damage of the machines on top of her chest problems. Then would she ever come off the machine? We didn't know but it wasn't a risk we were willing to take.
The new year came about and we got too mid January when we had to have a meeting with the Medical staff, regarding Regans future care. When it came down to it, there was none, as far as the hospital goes! The Doctors explained how Regan had been in and out now for quite a long time and regardless of medicines and treatment, there was not much improvement. There was nothing really left for them to do or try!!
The Doctors explaines that it's not really a case of when she dies, but how!! This meaning we had to sit and think what options were best for Regan.
It came down to two... Stay at the hospital and see what happens, chances being she will die there. Or take her home and provide all the necessary care ourselves and see it out.
Die on a hospital bed with nurses running around? Or be at home with Family and home comforts is what it basically came down too.
We took Regan home.
Not really knowing what we were in for, well, more not believing what was going to happen, but how could we leave her there to just wait and see what happens.
We Couldn't.
Regan passed away peacefully at home...
...In Mummy & Daddys arms.
Regan was at home for 2 weeks and what a wonderful 2 weeks that was. Regan was buried 2 weeks afterwards
Regan remained at home from when she left the hospital until the day she were buried.
Just like Me & Mum promised her.
I wrote this for Regan the night before her big day x
MISSING MY REGAN
There are so many things
that I did not say
It was always tomorrow
but never today
I never told you
how much I want you too stay
Even though I knew
you had to go away
I wish that I could sit with you
and sing that song we play
Iβve been missing you Regan
Since you went away
I will never forget you
Not even for a day
In my heart, is where you will stay
Until I reach, my dying day
Thatβs when I will find you
So that we can play
Thatβs when I will promise
Together we will stay.
Love you Regan
From Daddy xx
BUG HUGS REGAN
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β±β°β° Angel Day β±β°β°
β±β°β° Your Angel Day in Heaven β±β°β°
β±β°β° Many tears will fall for you β±β°β°
β±β°β° You touched so many loving hearts β±β°β°
β±β°β° There’s so many missing you β±β°β°
β±β°β° As you now live in paradise β±β°β°
β±β°β° Its Heaven up above stay β±β°β°
β±β°β° Close to all your loved β±β°β°
β±β°β° ones For it’s you they β±β°β°
β±β°β° miss and love β±β°β°
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β±β°β° family and friends that you miss you ever day β±β°β°
β±β°β° but in our hearts forever you will not be β±β°β°
β±β°β° forgoten you take care love from me β±β°β°
β±β°β° Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger β±β°β°
β±β°β° and Granddaughter of Albert and β±β°β°
β±β°β° Marie-Jeanne Belanger take care β±β°β°
β±β°β° hugs and XXXX bye for now good β±β°β°
β±β°β° night β±β°β°
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....Goodnight and God Bless..........
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I believe in Angels
I wish it wasn’t true,
We didn't want an Angel
We only wanted you
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You've left behind our broken hearts.
Our thoughts and photos too.
We didn't want a memory
We only wanted you
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merry xmas princess
"I began to string the tinsel
Across the branches of the tree,
And remembered all the Christmases
When you were here with me.
Are there Christmas trees in Heaven?
I really need to know.
Does an angel sit atop the tree
and is there any snow?
The house just seems so quiet
Christmas music brings me tears
But I know that you’re in heaven
As these days turn into years.
One day we will be together
It was always meant to be
Together up in heaven, For all eternity."
mummy loves you xxx
You’ve just walked on ahead of me
And I’ve got to understand
You must release the ones you love
And let go of their hand.
I try and cope the best I can
But I’m missing you so much
If I could only see you
And once more feel your touch.
Yes, you’ve just walked on ahead of me
Don’t worry I’ll be fine
But now and then I swear I feel
Your hand slip into mine.
i love you xxxx
God saw u getting tired and a cure was not 2 be. So He put His arms around you and whispered "come 2 me". With tearful eyes I watched you, and saw u pass away. Although I love u dearly, I couldn't make u stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke my heart 2 prove 2 me, he only takes the best........ Mummy loves you all the world and more xxxxxx
mummy misses you
mummy misses you princess loads and loads i wish you could be here ......... i hope your having lots of fun with your angel friends and playing lots of games ( not ben 10 ) like your brother.i miss you more everyday i just want to hold you agen, but i know your suffering is over and that you are happy... i love you baby girl so much but we will meet again so untill then you be good mummy loves you xxxxxx
RIP Beautiful Little Angel
Leon, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little daughter Regan. Such a big beautiful smile she had and a georgus little face. She was so amazing at how she could fight back all these illnesses. Such a big fighter with lots of courage. She is definately one of god's special Angels. Regan sweetheart, you have really touched my heart with the fight for your life. If anyone deserved to live, then you did. God bless you sweetheart and sleep tight. Watch over your mummy, daddy, all your family and friends they love and miss you so much. God bless you all. Love Kim xxxx Boothstown/Worsley.
To Regan.
If tears could build a stairway,
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to Heaven
And bring you home again.
Thinking of you so much x
Daddy x
My Sister, Regan.
My Sister, Regan
My sister holds me tight
She also kisses me goodnight
My sister knows when I’m mad
she helps me when I’m sad
My sister knows if I’ve cried
and even when I’ve lied –
Because she’s always by my side
My sister can tell
that I wish her well
My sister has my heart
because we are apart
My sister is here to stay
In my memory each day
My sister has moved away
And I miss her everyday
but in my heart,
Is where she will always stay
Love From
Leon
xxx xxx xxx
so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter may god keep her safe in his garden until the day you meet her again take care my deepest sympathy to you and all your family xxxxx r.i.p sweet little angel god love you xxxxxxxxxxx
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